Escape the danger of “low expectations” this Christmas!
Advent is rooted in the work of God in history, through real people, to do the miraculous in the most human of things, through the birth of a child.
Restlessness is an often-bewildering part of our human existence. It can be disquieting. It can even be annoying. Yet, this restlessness is something within us that reflects the nature of God. The Bible tells us that our restless God hovered over the chaotic mess of nothingness before creating life, beauty, order, and love out of that chaotic nothingness. So, our restlessness can be good when it motivates us to be creative, find new ways to love, and launch ourselves into some redemptive effort.
Unfortunately, we can also give up on ever gaining anything good from our restlessness. We can try to silence it with counterfeit pursuits. We can try to push it away with incessant purchasing, religiosity, fancy new gizmos, constant noise, chemical numbing, prurient sexual diversions, or the latest media and technological distractions. If we are not careful, we can silence our restlessness and settle for the deadening monotony of low expectations.
Christmas can be a time when our restlessness intensifies. This holiday restlessness can reawaken us to pursue joy, adventure, and new opportunities. It can also intensify feelings of grief, longing, and loss for others. For many of us, it is a mixture. The difference has to do with whether we celebrate Christmas or Advent.
Christmas is a holiday, a break from work, a time to travel, an opportunity to be with family, and a time of gift-giving. Christmas can be a special time for friends and family, filled with Santa and his elves, trees, sparkling lights, and songs. However, one can secularize it, re-acculturate it, or rename it, and not much is lost. God uses our restlessness during the Christmas season to call us to something more profound: Advent.
Advent is a time for holy mystery. It is a focused time for us to pursue Jesus. It is a commitment to be open to the amazing gifts and overflowing grace of God. Advent is rooted in the work of God in history through real people to do the miraculous in the most human of things, the birth of a child. God uses our restlessness through Advent to open us to his nearness and his interruptions of our monotonous and mundane lives with his glorious hope, abounding joy, and amazing promises.
When we approach Christmas as Advent, we recognize that we live in the land of in-between. We live between Jesus’ first Advent, his coming to earth as a baby born in Bethlehem, and his ultimate Advent, his coming in glory at the close of time. If we are willing, we can also discover that Advent’s precious mini-moments still happen for us in this land of in-between. Advent can help us triumph over our focus on what we lack, the wounds we’ve accumulated, the mess of life in our times, and the distance in life that we’ll never cover.
When we open up Luke’s gospel, the Holy Spirit reminds us that when Jesus first came, people were stuck in many of the same places we get stuck in today. Luke’s first two chapters challenge us to believe that Advent can happen to people like us — people who are trapped by the monotony of low expectations.
In Luke, we meet people like us. Some of these people were old when Advent happened: Zechariah and Elizabeth. They were haunted by what they had never achieved, the blessings they had never received, and the deep sense of lack they had accumulated over many years of disappointment. Yet, in their growing despair, God surprised them when they thought they were too old for surprises. Thankfully, Advent began with a profoundly disappointed old man and an old woman whose lives God rerouted through his grace so they could find joy, hope, and new life.
Luke also introduces us to young people: like Mary anticipating her marriage to Joseph. Beyond all experience or expectation, Advent was conceived in Mary’s womb and supported by Joseph’s faithfulness. Mary was deeply spiritual but hemmed in by her little world’s realities in unspectacular and often despised Nazareth. God overran their little world realities with his glory.
Luke also shows us, shepherds. Their lives were hard. They spent their time among their flocks in the fields. They were no longer respected parts of their culture, even though their heritage boasted of Abraham, Moses, and David. Yet, in this time, they had little hope of anything glorious happening in their world. However, these lowly shepherds were the first earth-bound people to declare Advent, sharing their experience of the spectacular display of angelic glory and song, then the incredible moments at the manger with baby Jesus.
We might think that these folks should have jumped at the opportunity to experience God’s grace displayed to them with the coming of angels. But they were not expecting anything extraordinary to happen in their lives. God’s glorious visitors started and frightened them. They had to be reassured before they could accept the gloriousness of what was happening to them, for them, and through them. Each of them had become prisoners of their low expectations and ordinary circumstances. Something new and glorious can feel threatening when one grows familiar with the monotony of low expectations. So, God had to convince them that Advent could happen with them.
Their surprise and reluctance are good news for us, dear friend in Jesus. Why? Because these people — young and old, experienced and new — were a lot like us. They knew the world of lack, hurtful wounds, and distance too far to travel to reach their low-hung goals. They knew the monotony of low expectations. Yet, Advent happened to them, for them, and through them. God did not allow Jesus’ coming, our Lord’s first Advent, to happen without them. God did this so that we could know Advent was real: real to our world, real to life, and real to actual people like us. God did it so that Advent could be real for us.
So, rather than focusing on Christmas as just another big holiday, we can use this time to focus on Advent. We can recognize the coming of Jesus to the womb of a virgin named Mary. We can celebrate Jesus’ arrival at a manger in Bethlehem, just as the shepherds did. We can remember that Jesus’ first Advent ensures his Advent at the end of time. We can trust that the events of his first Advent guarantee our reunion with him, along with all of those who are his, at his final Advent. We can anticipate this final joy because of Elizabeth and Zechariah’s joy, Joseph and Mary’s joy, and the shepherd’s joy.
Jesus’ first Advent, his birth in Bethlehem, isn’t just an event that filled the heavens with angels. His birth also changed our monotony of low expectations into our reason for hope, our experience of love, and our celebration of joy at Jesus’ final Advent. This year let’s choose Advent over just celebrating another holiday!
And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.
When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.” So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them (Luke 2:8-18).
Now is a great time for you to join people worldwide who share a simple Bible reading plan for 2022. This plan will help us expect, experience, and share the presence of Jesus in our lives. We will read one chapter from a Gospel (Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John) each day for the next year and ask the Holy Spirit to help us hear Jesus’ answer to us to four questions each day:
- What do you want me to know about Jesus from what I read today?
- What do you want me to feel about what Jesus revealed to me today?
- What do you want me to do in response to what Jesus did and taught today?
- What do I need to share with someone that touched me today about Jesus and living for Him?
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Author Phil Ware
